Have you ever judged a messy child in public? I know I did… until I had Hope. Between spills, snot, and wild hair, I’ve realised that a grubby child isn’t a reflection of a lazy parent — it’s a sign of a happy, loved, and well-fed little human.
While Hope loves giving hugs, it’s important for her to learn who she can and can’t hug for her safety and the comfort of others. In this post, I share our ongoing journey of teaching her about personal space, consent, and finding the balance between allowing her to express love while keeping her safe.
When we are walking to the car, she will generally go straight to the car ready to climb in. However, there are some mornings that she looks up with her cheeky grin and keeps walking down the driveway. Following directions… it’s not always an easy thing to teach. Here’s a few thoughts.
Often when we think about security blankets, we think about our kids and their blankets or toys but today I want to talk about my own security blanket. It’s not in the usual form but in the form of a ‘pram’.
When your child is sick, every sign of discomfort adds to your worry as you try to comfort them. With a child who has Down syndrome, these fears are heightened, as the risks can escalate quickly.
“Let’s have a tea party mummy,” a little girl said with a smile on her face as she poured a pretend cup of tea. “Hold on a second” the mum replied as she scrolled through her messages. With only 52 weekends a year, it’s crucial to put the phone down, cherish the time, and create memories they’ll remember. Kids grow up fast—don’t miss it. Play, laugh, and be present while you can.
Ever find yourself wondering, “Am I doing this right?” as a parent? I sure do. In this blog, I share my own doubts and discoveries as I navigate the ups and downs of parenting. It’s a journey of trial and error, but one filled with love, hope, and plenty of learning along the way.
It’s common for people to think that raising a child with Down syndrome is difficult. But is it? Here are just a few thoughts I had on parenting the twins.
When it comes to having a child with Down syndrome, a lot of people are concerned about the time it will take to look after them, and they worry that they’re other children will miss out. I have times I have felt like that too, but let’s look at what it really looks like.
Hope was quiet in the backseat, and for a few moments as I drove, I forgot she was there. It was only a few moments, but it was a moment of realisation about how easy it is for us get lost in our thoughts, or in what’s coming ahead.